The sex position to try if…

You want him to be able to see your whole body

1/10

Try: The Woman-on-Top 

In this position, your guy will have a glorious, full-frontal view of your body and be able to grab a hold of your butt and control the speed of your lovemaking. Plus, you’ll be able to see each other’s facial expressions. 

Simply get your man to lie on his back and then straddle him. You can remain in a kneeling position or, if you prefer, you can squat (whatever feels most comfortable). If you get tired – and to give your guy an even better view of your intimate parts – lean back, resting your hands on his knees as he moves in and out of you.

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You want to stimulate yourself during sex

2/10

Try: The Seashell

Think of this as the spiced-up version of the Missionary position. Once your man has penetrated you, spread your legs as wide as you can, bending your knees and dangling them over his arms.

With your vulva exposed, you can easily reach down to pleasure yourself manually. Bonus: This position also allows for deeper penetration, so you’ll double your pleasure!

 

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You want to have sex comfortably in the shower

3/10

Try: Standing Doggy-Style

Like the idea of getting dirty together in the shower? This position is easy to get into when you’re all soaped up and slippery. 

Rest your palms against the shower wall, keeping your body at a 45-degree angle and bending your knees slightly. If you have a shower rail or something to hold on to for extra stability, that’s even better. Now get your guy to enter you from behind. 

 

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You want to feel completely in charge during sex

4/10

Try: Sexy Scissoring

Get into the Woman-on-Top position, but be sure to lean back, resting your hands in between your guy’s legs. Your back should be arched. 

In this position, you’ll not only be giving your partner a fabulous view of your body and face, you’ll also be able to rotate your hips and “grind” down onto your guy’s penis, and control the pace and the depth of penetration.

 

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You want him to be able to manually stimulate you

5/10

Try: Sensual spooning

Lie on your side with your partner behind you. He should also be on his side. Now lift your upper leg so that he can enter you easily. You may have to push your butt towards him to ensure a perfect, snug fit. Next, bend the knee of your upper leg slightly and rest your foot on the bed, forming a triangle. 

In this position you’ll both find it easier to move. While your guy is thrusting in and out of you, guide his hand towards your clitoris or your breasts – wherever you want to be touched. 

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You want maximum pleasure for minimal effort

6/10

Try: The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT)

This take on the missionary position is perfect if you can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation (that’s most of us!), as it’s designed to maximise friction between the base of the penis and the clitoris. 

Once you’re in the missionary position, get your man to slide his body upwards against yours, so that your jaw is touching his shoulder. He should rest his upper body on his elbows. 

Now, instead of thrusting in and out, he should gently rock his body back and forth, making sure his torso is pressed closely against your body and the base of his penis or public bone is rubbing against your clitoris. 

 

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You want to feel closer to your man

7/10

Try: The Face-Off

This position is intimate as it allows for eye contact between you and your partner and keeps your hands free so that you can explore each other’s bodies. Get him to sit on a chair or the edge of the bed. Now sit on his lap facing him. 

From here, you can control the angle and depth of the entry and thrust. You’ll also be face-to-face with your man, so feel free to kiss him passionately, whisper into his ear, and play with his hair.

 

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You want him to have a great view of your butt

8/10

Try: The Reverse Cowgirl

If your man can’t get enough of your round and perky butt, this is the perfect sex position for you. It’s like the Woman-on-Top but instead of facing your guy, turn your body around so that you’re facing his feet. 

Whether you squat or kneel, he will get an up-close view of your bottom while you “ride” him.  

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You want to experience deep penetration

9/10

Try: Doggy Style

This position is a favourite of many women for the simple reason that it allows for deep penetration and stimulates the G-spot (that fleshy, sensitive area on the inner front wall of the vagina). 

To pull this one off, get on all fours. You can rest your upper body on your elbows if you want, or rest your palms on the bedhead or wall to steady yourself. Now get your man to kneel behind you and enter you from this position. As he thrusts in and out of you, he can steady himself by holding onto your waist or buttocks.

 

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You want a sexy, passionate quickie

10/10

Try: The Pick-Me-Up

This position is super-hot, sexy and intense, and just the thing when you’re both horny and in a hurry to make love. 

Get your guy to lean against the wall and pick you up. Wrap your legs around his waist as tightly as you can while you bounce your buttocks up and down and he thrusts in and out of you. 

In this position, you get deep vaginal penetration and clitoral stimulation at the same time. 

 

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