Should you use CDC Vouchers on your first date? Here’s what people think
Swipe left or right on CDC vouchers? Let’s debunk this very thought-provoking first-date dilemma
By Latisha Sonia Shaymentyran -
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In Singapore, where the cost of living is constantly rising, CDC (Community Development Council) vouchers have become a helpful financial perk. They help households offset daily expenses, and they support local businesses while easing financial commitments. With Prime Minister Lawrence Wong’s Budget 2025 announcement, every Singaporean household will receive $800 worth of CDC vouchers.
But here’s a debate-worthy scenario: Would you pay with CDC vouchers on your first date? Does it show financial prudence, or does it scream cheapo? Should love and romance come with a price tag, or is this just the reality of dating in an expensive city?
We asked Singaporeans, from Gen Zs to millennials and Gen Xs on their hot take.
Where can CDC vouchers be used?
From hawker centres to heartland shops and even cafes, you’re likely to still be able to take your date somewhere cosy with a decent ambience — besides, who doesn’t love a cute brunch at a hippie cafe?
With that said, these vouchers do come with limitations. You can’t use them at fancy hotel buffets, omakase spots, or high-end steakhouses. While some people might be fine with a humble meal at a hawker centre, others may expect a bit more effort, and money, especially on a first date.
So, the big question is: Does the mode of payment matter?
The lingering social stigma
First dates are all about first impressions. Whether we like it or not, many people subconsciously evaluate everything — the venue, the get-up, the bill… oh, and of course the meaningful conversations you have with your date.
On the contrary, 22-year-old, Kelly says that discretion is important.
Meanwhile, 56-year-old, Bhavani Sinnadurai believes using vouchers can send different signals.
Does it matter who pays first?
Traditionally, men have been expected to pay on first dates. Some feel that using vouchers removes the financial burden of spending too much, while others worry that it looks bad on them.
26-year-old, Darren Lai, who makes it a point to pay on first dates, sees the appeal.
But 41-year-old, Sofia Ritz discusses that financial stability is important when dating.
24-year-old, Lee Ting Yee Chelza comments that the media’s romanticism of quite literally everything has a dire impact on first-date expectations.
Let’s talk perks
1. Financial prudence
23-year-old, Nadine Panti supports the idea that saving money is a green flag, not a red one.
2. It shows your authentic self
Some people think a guy paying with vouchers is a refreshing change — no pretence, just transparency. 21-year-old, Inaz even finds it attractive.
31-year-old, Shobanu Scarlott voices a similar sentiment in that there really is no need for a facade.
3. It can be a good conversation starter
45-year-old, Brian Ratnam thinks it could help with first-date jitters.
Besides, 30-year-old, Jarren Low expresses the irony of bringing someone on a date only to use a CDC voucher at that.
Let’s talk drawbacks
1. It might be perceived as low-effort
25-year-old, Alanna shares that some might see it as a lack of effort or thoughtfulness.
2. It might give the wrong impression
29-year-old, Jazli Garcia feels that it might be embarrassing for a working adult.
Final thoughts?
To use or not to use?
At the end of the day, it really depends on a lot of factors. For instance, If both parties value financial prudence, then why not? But if first impressions are important, it might be better to save your CDC vouchers for another occasion.
Bottom line? Your connection should supersede the bill. A great date isn’t about how much is spent, but about whether there’s a reason to meet again.