Singapore's sizzling singles: These celebs are thriving solo in 2024

Love and relationships are a constant source of fascination, and celebrities are no exception. 

But what about the stars who choose to fly solo? We speak to some of Singapore's hottest celebrities like Cynthia Koh, Romeo Tan, Jacelyn Tay and more, who are rocking their careers and living life to the fullest, all while being single.

These Singaporean celebs are thriving solo in 2024

Cynthia Koh

Singaporean actress Cynthia Koh is a shining example of a celebrity thriving in her single life. 

For Cynthia, being single is all about embracing independence, continuous learning and self-care. 

"The best part about being single is that you only have yourself to answer to," she says. This freedom has empowered her to navigate life on her own terms, becoming "more independent" and taking charge of her personal growth.

Turning 50 this year, Cynthia prioritises self-improvement and learning. She's not just an actress — she's also an intuitive holistic practitioner who champions natural healing via sound therapy. 

"Doing simple things like a mobile detox once a week, learning to say “no” when I don't feel like meeting the needs of others," she explains. This focus on self-care extends to her hobbies — she even recently built a drum and plans on learning how to play!

While Cynthia is open to love, she emphasises that a potential partner must enhance her life. 

"I have witnessed great relationships amongst friends and good partners who are independent individuals who bring out the best in each other," she shares with Her World. 

Compatibility and acceptance are of utmost importance to Cynthia. "Having similar values would be great too. And someone who allows me to be me and accepts me for who I am. I think it’s best I fly solo unless my partner can understand that he would be like number three or four on my list,” she laughs. 

Nat Ho 

Singer-songwriter Nat Ho is a globetrotting bachelor who thrives on his independence. Having lived in three cities like Seoul, Taipei, and Los Angeles, Nat says, "I think it's safe to say I'm somewhat of a nomad." 

"As a single person, it allows me a certain flexibility in uprooting myself according to life plans, without too much consideration. Of course, on the flip side, this nomadic lifestyle could precisely be why I’m still single," the 39 year old admits. 

But being single hasn't stopped Nat from loving himself. 

His advice? "Do nice things for yourself," he says. Whether it's treating yourself to a delicious meal or exploring new hobbies, Nat emphasises the importance of self-investment. 

He also highlights the power of strong platonic relationships — "surround yourself with high quality friends who have dreams and goals," he advises.

"Unfortunately, (I'm) really still single," Nat jokes. He seeks a partner who prioritises effort, consistency, and open communication. So, if you're someone like that, hit him up.

"It takes two hands to clap," he says. "A relationship requires effort. I'm looking for someone I can build (a life) together with. Be honest and direct, mean what you say and say what you mean."  

Ultimately, Nat's message is one of self-sufficiency: "Learn to be happy with who you are, and learn to be happy single. This way, whatever life throws your way, you know you're always going to be okay."

Jacelyn Tay 

“Oh, I am still single for sure, for six years. I’ve never had any boyfriend during this period because I chose to,” Jacelyn Tay confidently tells us. 

The 49 year old may have been divorced, but she is currently living her best life with her 13 year old son, Zavier. 

Since splitting up with her ex-husband of eight years in 2018, Jacelyn has built a fortress of self-sufficiency, learning to fix leaky faucets, pump flat tires, lights, wi-fi routers, TVs, and toilet bowl covers all by herself. 

"Independence is freedom and that gives me the greatest joy," she declares. "Anyone who wants to be truly happy needs to learn how to be happy by herself (or himself) first.” 

But Jacelyn's not all brawn and DIY skills. She's on a mission to conquer the wellness world, one client with troubled skin at a time. Her company, Body Inc., is a testament to her dedication to inner and outer beauty. 

Jacelyn's a certified wellness coach, constantly upgrading her skills and diving deep into the fascinating world of psychoneuroimmunology (think brain, emotions, and how they impact your immune system — pretty cool, huh?).

That being said, Jacelyn still prefers being attached (with the right guy) over flying solo. 

“Disclaimer: if I meet The One, I will choose him, not singlehood”, Jacelyn quips. 

But if there’s anyone she wouldn’t date, it is guys who have “just ended a relationship”. 

“It is a bad start because of the baggage that's still lingering,” Jacelyn explains. “I would like someone who is comfortable in his own skin, confident, happy, and knows what he wants. Most importantly, this person must be someone who wants to grow together in the same direction.”

“Many people live in fear and settle for a partner due to fear of being alone. Life should not be lived in fear, but with everlasting joy that is empowering. True happiness comes from within, and only then can we share it with others and enrich their lives. This is what I tell myself before settling down with a partner.” Wise words.

Ya Hui 

Ya Hui, who left Mediacorp in 2023, is thoroughly enjoying her current single status — for now, at least. 

"I love the luxury of time I have, living freely… That’s what life should be," the 37-year-old actress declares in a chat with Her World. 

This newfound independence allows Ya Hui to pursue her passions without limitations. "I have endless freedom to do what I want to do," she beams.

Though currently single, her ideal partner, she says, would be someone she “shares a strong connection with”. 

"The ability to click on most things would be ideal. For example, enjoying the same food, having the same thoughts, basically being telepathic in general,” she describes.

Romeo Tan 

After actor Romeo Tan bought a 1-bedroom bachelor pad at Marina One Residences in 2020, rumours run amok that he isn’t planning on settling down. 

While he may still remain publicly single now, his outlook on love is far from reclusive.

"I believe that being in a relationship can be a wonderful thing," the 39 year old says. "Having someone by your side can make life's journey more fulfilling." Romeo clearly values companionship, but he's also enjoying the perks of single life.

One unexpected joy? Spontaneity.

"I can be spontaneous with my plans," he explains, "whether it's a last-minute trip or a change in a major decision, it's more convenient without the need to coordinate with someone else. It’s the freedom and flexibility that bring me joy."

His ideal partner would be someone who understands the demands of his career. "This includes irregular hours, travel, and the need for emotional expression," he outlines, adding that his partner should also have their own passions and interests as well.

Benjamin Tan 

Singaporean actor Benjamin Tan wears his heart on his sleeve when it comes to love. The 31-year-old is clear about his desire to settle down with someone who shares his values and personality, eventually building a small family with a baby girl in the picture.

"Communication is key," he emphasises. Cliché or not, Benjamin believes that clashing personalities are a recipe for disaster. "We have to constantly talk to each other about our feelings and not keep things in our hearts. This is unhealthy and will, sooner or later, explode into a huge quarrel."

The companionship and support of a partner are undeniably appealing. "Having a partner would be nice," he admits. "That's because I'll know that there will always be someone to share my woes with, and the warmth from a companionship is quite desirable."

However, practicality reigns supreme at this point in his career. "I have to be able to take care of myself well before taking care of another person, right? Otherwise, it would be unfair to my partner," he shares.

So, while Benjamin enjoys the freedom and self-care that bring single affords — think tending to his plant collection, indulging in Chinese literature, and spending quality time with his two doggos — his heart yearns for a future filled with love and family.