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There are may ways that we ‘fail’ in life and failure comes in all shapes and sizes. How you respond to failure is more important than the failure itself. It’s not the end of the world and there are, in fact, several things ways you can learn from failure.

1. It’s Okay

The first thing to acknowledge after something goes wrong is that it’s okay to fail. Failure is a part of life, everyone goes through it so take it as a lesson to be learnt. Look at it as a setback on the journey of life and don’t let this blip define you. Once you accept that failure is okay, you’ll be more open to learning from it and to understand how you can perhaps make things work the next time. 

2. Analyse This

Instead of sweeping your mistakes under the carpet, analyse and learn from them. Sure, looking at things that went wrong won’t feel good but it’s a necessary step that will teach you a thing or two about yourself. It will also benefit you in the long run, as you learn what you should and shouldn’t do to make things happen. But don’t obsess over your failure; that can’t possibly lead to anything good. 

3. Fresh Eyes

Take a step back and look at the situation from someone else’s eyes. This allows you to throw all emotion out of the window and be objective. You’ll be able to react rationally as you detach yourself from the situation and this is when you’ll be able to see things that you wouldn’t have noticed otherwise. 

4. Embrace It

It may sound like an awful cliché but failure really is the best way to learn. It gives you the opportunity to re-evaluate the way you did things and come up with a different approach. Give yourself the freedom to fail so you’ll be okay with taking risks. Being overly-cautious isn’t always the best approach to life so welcome failure as an opportunity to learn. 


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