Unexpected ways to tease him that don’t involve your body

When it comes to teasing your man, it doesn’t always have to involve you touching him or sending him nudes. Sure, you might think that sending him a few risky pictures might just do the trick, but sometimes the most powerful kind of flirting is all in the build-up. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or just started dating, knowing how to spark his curiosity without going straight to the physical can make things way more exciting.

Here are some unexpected, non-physical ways to keep him on his toes.

Send him a mysterious text

If you’re thinking of sending him a text midday while he’s at work or even on the weekends, a simple “I was just thinking about you…” with no follow-up will keep him guessing all day.

Leave behind a little reminder

If you’re at his place and want him to think of you even after you leave, try leaving your scrunchie on his desk — or wear his hoodie and return it just before you go, so it carries your perfume. These little “forgotten” items will tease him long after you’re gone.

Challenge him to a game

Whether it’s trivia, poker, or Mario Kart, showing off your competitive side is fun — and undeniably attractive. Just be careful not to take it too far, or you might end up sparking an argument instead.

Share an inside joke at the perfect time

Nothing bonds two people faster than laughing about something only you two understand.

Give him a playful nickname

Something silly or unexpected makes him feel special (and keeps him curious about what you’ll call him next). For those in a long-term relationship, try switching things up every now and then to keep it fresh.

Drop a one-line voice note

It’s not always about texting. When you’re not together with each other, consider sending a voice note like “miss me yet?” or “guess what I’m thinking” as it can be a lot more intriguing than a wall of text.

Keep plans slightly vague

“Can’t wait for Friday… you’ll see.” Building anticipation is the ultimate tease.

Tease his food cravings

Send a snap of his favourite snack or dessert with a “thought of you” caption because we all know that the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach.

Flirt with your silence

Sometimes, leaving him on read for just a little longer than usual builds suspense (and makes your reply hit harder).

Send him a meme he wasn’t expecting

If you’re always scrolling Instagram or TikTok, send him a meme to show off your sense of humour. The sillier or more personal to him, the better.

Share a ‘what if’ scenario

Thinking of something to discuss on your date? Sharing a ‘what if’ scenario like “What if we just dropped everything and flew somewhere random?” might spark some interesting conversations between the two of you. Besides, playful imagination is irresistible.

Flirt over something mundane

“Buying toothpaste — wish you were here to help me pick a flavour.” It’s unexpected and makes even the ordinary feel flirty.

Pretend to be unimpressed

“I don’t know… I think I might beat you at that.” A touch of mock arrogance teases him into proving you wrong.

End the night with a cliffhanger

“Sweet dreams… I’ll tell you the rest tomorrow.” Nothing gets him thinking like a half-kept secret.