Singaporean women spill their deceptively simple (but steaming hot!) secrets to seducing a man

Make it a hot morning

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“I usually leave for work before my husband does. By the time I’m dressed and ready to head out of the house, he’s just stepping out of the shower. This is when I make my move. While kissing him goodbye, I’ll gently caress his arms and chest and playfully rub my body up against his. This always gets him excited. Then I’ll whisper in his ear how sexy he looks naked. Of course he’ll ask me for sex, which I always refuse – because it would make us both late for work – but I’ll promise him a good time in bed later that night. This is usually all it takes for him to long for me the entire day. He’ll send me sexy texts while we’re at work, telling me that he can’t wait to ravage me when we get home.” – Claudia*, 40, training instructor

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Send him sexy texts

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“I love to keep my man interested by sending him sexy texts while he’s at work. The workday can get pretty boring, so lines like ‘Hey baby, I’ve been fantasising about you all afternoon’, ‘I can’t wait to go home to you tonight’, and ‘I want to do X, Y or Z with you in bed’ really give my man something to look forward to when he clocks out. This is such a simple way to seduce your man yet many women are too afraid to give it a go for fear of looking silly. Don’t be shy – be open with your fantasies and see where it takes you.” – Tina*, 35, marketing director

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Act out a shower fantasy

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“Like most men, my husband is a very visual and tactile guy. Sometimes I’ll invite him into the shower with me and allow him to soap me up. This turns us both on, because it’s such a sensual experience. Sometimes I won’t let him touch me at all, but I’ll allow him to watch me while I soap myself up. It’s always a thrill to observe his reaction as my hands glide up and down my body. You can really sense his excitement and desire for me, and I love the sexual tension the ritual creates.” – Tara*, 27, accountant

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Take a sexy shopping selfie

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“My husband absolutely detests shopping, but sometimes I’ll make him accompany on one of my weekend retail therapy trips. I do feel guilty for dragging him along, so to make it up to him, I’ll take sexy photos of myself while trying on clothes in the fitting room. I’ll put on the flimsiest lingerie and attempt all kinds of provocative poses while taking selfies. Then I’ll send the pictures to my man while he’s waiting for me outside. If I’m feeling particularly frisky I’ll add a sexually suggestive message, too. He loves it! The rest of the day is often a challenge for him as he tries to control his urges.” – Sharon*, 31, sales coordinator

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Go commando

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“Even though we’ve been married for 12 years, my hubby and I still have the occasional date night. Once in a while, I’ll go out without any knickers on – on purpose. I’ll let him in on my ‘secret’ mid-way through dinner or whatever movie we’re watching. You can tell that this gets him really hot, and he has to hold himself back from putting his hand up my dress just to check that I’m telling the truth. By the time we get home, he’s so turned on by that mental image of me panty-less that he’s practically begging to make love to me!” – Lisa*, 36, business owner

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Lay in his lap

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“When my man and I are watching TV together at night, I love to rest my head on his lap. I’ll then take one of his arms and drape it across my chest, strategically placing his hand on one breast. I’ll take his other arm and place it on my thigh. This especially turns him on if I’m wearing next to nothing. He has a bird’s eye view of my body and easy access to my hotspots.” – Bella*, 32, counsellor

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Wear his clothes

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“Some weekends I’ll wear my man’s T-shirt or boxer shorts around the house, just for fun. He loves seeing me go about my day dressed in his oversized clothes. There’s something about seeing me in them that makes him really hot for me. He thinks it’s sexy. I don’t even bother buying lingerie anymore!” – Patricia*, 32, writer

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Be his dancing queen

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“My guy and I love to dance. Every now and again, to make things extra exciting, I’ll grind my hips against his on the dance floor and shake my breasts and booty in front of him. Depending on the song that’s playing, I may even work some slow and erotic moves into my dance routine while he watches. It turns my man on in a big way and he finds it impossible to keep his hands to himself.” – Charlene*, 34, writer

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Just touch him

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“I think unadulterated physical affection is highly underrated. We all know that guys love looking at, and touching, the women they love, but they also enjoy it when their women check them out and touch or grope them. I don’t overdo the touching with my husband, because then it would cease to be fun or spontaneous; but if I’m in a sexy mood, I’ll allow my hand to discreetly brush against his genitals while we’re out in public, or, if he’s driving, I’ll rest my hand on his thigh, close enough to his groin. If we’re out having dinner with friends, I’ll subtly run my fingers over his crotch (under the table, of course!). It always takes him by surprise and makes him feel desired. By the end of the night, he can’t wait to take me home and get me into bed.” – Clarissa*, 30, entrepreneur

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Get sexy with your food

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“When it’s just my hubby and me alone at home, I like to eat seductively. And I make sure he notices! I’ll do everything from licking cream off my dessertspoon and licking my fingers slowly with my eyes closed, to nibbling on food and running my tongue across my lips at the end of the meal. This instantly transforms the vibe in the room and makes it hard for my man to keep his eyes off me. During the rest of the meal, all he can think about is the fun we’ll have later in bed. My only advice to pulling this off successfully: Your actions shouldn’t be too over-the-top (so don’t make any gross sucking sounds!) and don’t spend the whole meal trying to seduce him because then your actions will only look fake and contrived (and that’s a total mood-killer!)." – Diana*, 35, PR manager

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*All names have been changed.