Ooh, that's hot: Singaporean men reveal the sex positions that REALLY turn them on

1. What an awesome view

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“I love the woman-on-top position because I get a full view of my wife’s body and facial expressions. I love just laying back and taking in that whole glorious scene. I particularly love it when she arches her body backwards and throws her head back when she’s on the brink of an orgasm. That’s when I think she’s at her most beautiful.” – Trey*, 33, lecturer

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2. Totally in control

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“The doggie position is one of my favourites. For one, I don’t have to exert as much energy as when my girlfriend and I are in the missionary position, but second, it always makes me feel like I am ‘the man’. There’s something so raw and primal about doing it doggie-style. Oh, and I also get to grab hold of my girlfriend’s bouncy butt.” – Lionel*, 34, accountant

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3. Touchy-feely

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“I especially love having my lady on top of me. I don’t really have to do much work because this positions gives my girlfriend total control. But what I like most about it is that it gives me access to her hotspots. While she is grinding up and down on me I try to help her orgasm by stimulating her clitoris and playing with her boobs.” – Ben*, 30, financial executive

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4. Feeling strong and protective

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“Most people think the missionary position is boring, but I love it because it makes me feel so protective of my wife. When I’m on top I get to hold and cuddle her and kiss her face. It also lets us have intimate conversations while making love. It’s the most romantic sex position, in my view.” – Gregory*, 40, civil servant

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5.  Sexy on the side

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“My wife and I love having sideways sex. There’s not much physical effort involved so that’s a bonus. But what I enjoy most about this position is that it’s sexy. I get to spoon my wife, kiss her neck and back, and run my hands all over her body while I am inside her. It’s sweet and tender and it makes me feel so close to her every time.” – Daniel, 42, business owner

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6. In the hot seat

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“My girlfriend and I usually do it missionary or doggie style, but once in a while, when we’re feeling adventurous, we’ll do it while sitting on a chair. Well, more specifically, I’m in the chair and she sits on top of me. This gives her total control of the speed of my thrusting and she says it’s a pleasurable position for her because it allows me to thrust deeper. If she loves it, it’s good enough for me, but I also like it because it’s nice to relinquish control sometimes.” – Gary, 38, banker

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7. Crouching cowgirl

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“I love it when my girlfriend gets into the reverse cowgirl position. This is when she squats over me but she is faced the other way. Not only do I get a superb view of her buttocks, it also lets me play with her hair, which I find sexually arousing. We always feel like we’re doing something naughty when we do the reverse cowgirl.” – Leonard, 42, designer

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8. Up against the wall

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“My girlfriend and I sometimes have sex in the shower. This is the only time where we can have sex standing up against the wall and not feel awkward about it. I like this position because it’s sexy. Plus, I love seeing my partner’s breasts jiggle up and down when I am thrusting in and out of her.” – Kenneth*, 33, insurance agent

*Names have been changed.

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