“Pick your closest and dearest friend as your bridesmaid. She’ll know best how to tackle your ups and downs during the often-stressful preparatory months.” – Pearlyn, marketing executive
Choose carefully
“Don’t pick bridesmaids simply because they’re relatives. You’ll strain family relationships should anything go wrong – and there’ll be no way to avoid them at get-togethers.” – Catherine, assistant art director
“Avoid demanding girlfriends who expect nothing but the best, for instance designer dresses. Those types will only add woe to your wedding day.” – Emilyn, graphic designer
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Include your guy friends
“I had 2 of my close guy friends as my bridesmaids. We’ve been friends for over a decade and I didn’t want to exclude them out just because it isn’t the norm to do so. Everything turned out well and they grew close to my other girlfriends!” – Kimmie, personal trainer
“Choose friends with even temperaments. They are cool and can calm you down should anything upset you. Reward them with something special after the wedding. I treated my hard-working bridesmaid (and myself) to a day at the spa. We had a most relaxing time!” – Carole, homemaker
“Choose someone who’s dependable, organised and can work well under pressure. Important qualities that ensure your wedding runs smoothly.” – Marianne, headhunter
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“Don’t tell your bridesmaids their duties at the last minute. It’s impossible to expect them to do anything properly – and they’re not going to be happy about it.” – Penny, teacher
“Your bridesmaid may not be free when you need her at a particular time. Give her advance notice so she can plan her personal time and office work to fit your schedule.” – Luanne, theatre coordinator
“If you’re picking bridesmaids with children, be understanding about their less flexible schedule, and give them lighter responsibilities.” – Kelly, banker
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