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1. Romance
Maintaining romance in a relationship is even more essential once the marriage starts. A common complaint among married couples is that romance seems to fizzle out after the wedding or as the years go by. Conversations then seem to only revolve around mundane topics, gifts are seldom exchanged and compliments get less or just disappear. For a relationship to work, both parties need to feel valued and to remain interested in each other. Our tip? Look back at fond memories and create new ones together as much as possible to maintain and/or reignite your passion and love for one another. 

See also: 7 ways to add spark into your relationship.

2. Priorities
When couples tie the knot, their priorities change – from getting to know one another better, to saving up and building a future together. Don’t let one get in the way of the other – both are equally important and aren’t mutually exclusive. Keep a healthy balance in prioritising both your partner and the family by making sure you know what he or she wants, and take time to connect daily by discussing the day’s goings-on.

See also: 3 things not to take for granted in your marriage.

3. Time
Absence makes the heart grow fonder, and it’s true here. Once you’re married, you’ll realise that the idea of personal time starts to disappear. It’s different when you were dating and had opportunities to spend time in individual activities and hobbies you love. Post-wedding, you should discuss and decide on how you want to pursue common interests, and allocate personal time for one another. 

See also: 10 tips to making your relationship work.

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