1. You are not aware of how your body works down there

Honeymoon night stress? 5 reasons why

Research has shown that some women in their 20s still don’t know where their clitoris is and in turn, can’t bring themselves an orgasm. 

For starters, you can choose to talk about it with your close girlfriends who have more experience. Keep an open mind and they might be able to help you realize things you were not aware of before. 

 

2. He doesn’t know how your body works down there

Honeymoon night stress? 5 reasons why

However, it could also be because your partner doesn’t know how your body works either. So communication is key here.

If he doesn’t know where or how your body works, show him without judgment. You could also discover together to find out what turns you on. Everyone is different so you shouldn’t be shy about learning of the intimate workings of your body. 

 

3. You’re changing positions too much

Honeymoon night stress? 5 reasons why

Continuous and consistent rhythms can help women reach orgasms faster and easier. So, the next time you’re in a position that feels good, communicate with your partner and let them know you’d like to stay in that position for a little while longer.

See also: Funny and sexy – real brides share their honeymoon experiences

 

4. You rush through things

Honeymoon night stress? 5 reasons why

Unlike men, women need a little while longer to get excited and in turn, relax enough to have an orgasm. The next time this happens, make it a point to relax and spend time doing some foreplay. It’ll help you relax and get you in the mood to have sex.

 

5. You have too much on your mind

Honeymoon night stress? 5 reasons why

Often times, it’s hard to fully enjoy sex when you’ve had a long day at work but the next time you’re attempting to have a romantic time with your other half, make it a point to disconnect from stress and work.

See also: Wedding night blunders! 10 brides confess


This story was first published on The Woman’s Weekly.