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1. Consider your options
Do you want to put everyone in the same group together, or would you rather they make new friends during your wedding? Whatever decision you make, just make sure that there’s a balance, and keep in mind your guests’ age groups and interests. You don’t want any awkward silences to happen. It’s the same with children. If you’re inviting children to your reception, you can opt for a kids-only table, or seat them with their parents.

See also: how to have a unique and memorable wedding reception.

2. An even number of guests per table, please
You probably won’t have this problem if you’re having a typical ballroom banquet (as each table generally seats 10 or 12 guests), but try to make sure each table has an even number of women and men, so you get a good mix of conversation.

3. Plan per table, not seat
Save yourself the headache and assign guests to tables instead of seats. Just keep in mind though: if you’re inviting ex-es or people who have issues with one another to a wedding (if they’re both close friends of yours), keep them at separate tables.

See also: creative seating charts and escort cards.

4. Skip the singles table
If you’re looking to play matchmaker at your reception, seat the two individuals next to each other discreetly. You don’t want to potentially embarrass any of your guests, especially those who aren’t comfortable with the status quo.

See also: ways to ensure guests feel welcome at your wedding

5. Seek your parents’ help
If you’re inviting their friends and colleagues, ask them for help, as they’d know their guests better. 

See also: sweet gestures your guests will love.