In the midst of your wedding prep, don't forget to pamper your relationship with dates and quality time. 

Here are some date ideas that will refresh both your mind and soul for the rest of your wedding journey, be it through rejuvenation or destruction:

1) Night Kayaking at Pulau Ubin

You’ve heard of kayaking in the day, but have you heard of night kayaking? Turns out, the two are wholly different experiences.

With the glaring sun out of your eyes, and the soft reflection of the moon and stars on the water, the kayaking experience takes on a vastly different quality as you glide your kayak through the dark and still mangroves of Pulau Ubin and the surrounding sea.

And there’s something immensely therapeutic about lying down on your kayak face-up and getting lost in the calming night skies. Your wedding stress will feel a world away.

Join the night kayaking sessions by Living Fisher Village and the good folks of Pulau Ubin will take good care of you!

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And if you’re lucky, you might be able to taste some of their delish home-cooked suppertime dishes.

Living Fisher Village's Facebook page


2) Spend a day at the onsen

Take a day out at the spa, and by spa, we mean the boiling hot waters of the onsen at Yunomori Onsen & Spa to burn your anxiety away and restore your worn out bride-to-be self.

A quick half hour dip in its 40 degrees water will ease the tension in your body and have you feeling as soft and light as a newborn.

Image: Yunomori Onsen & Spa/Facebook

We’d also suggest finishing up your day with a nourishing meal in its Japanese-inspired café before heading to their lounge room where comfy chaise lounges with blankets awaits for your body to sink in.

Image: Yunomori Onsen & Spa/Facebook

Best of all, you can stay as long as you like – till they close that is.

Yunomori Onsen & Spa's Website


3) Have a chill-out picnic session

Key words: Chill

No three hour food prep and no stressing over prettifying your picnic set-up.

Just drive yourself to somewhere like Don Don Donki where you can get your ready-made bento and chirashi sets, desserts and drinks all in one place before heading over to a sure-win picnic site where the views and breeze are aplenty, like Marina Barrage.


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Just being in the breezy outdoors provides the simplest form of relaxation.


4) Bungy off 

If chasing a rush of adrenaline is your kind of thing, then look no further than the platform of AJ Hackett’s Bungy Jump in Sentosa.

At a jump height of 47m, you’ll have plenty of time to scream your wedding frustrations away without coming off as crazed.

Image: AJ Hackett Sentosa/Facebook

If that’s not enough, they’ve plenty of other activities you can scream for the duration of as well – like their Giant Swing that reaches up to speeds of 120km/h.

You can even ask your equally stressed out groom-to-be along for this ride as it can accommodate up to 3 people per swing.

AJ Hackett Sentosa's Website


5) Controlled destruction 

For those who’ve accumulated an unhealthy amount of rage and frustration no wedding forum can help, it’s time to bring yourself to The Fragment Room, where you pay to basically break and smash things like glasses, bottles and plates with a baseball bat to the soundtrack of your choice.


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They have a double package for two pax as well – so technically it can still be considered a date – just one that sees tons of damage and destruction.

Romance aside, we’d urge you to take care of your mental well-being and if going into Hulk mode is what it takes, then a date at The Fragment Room is perfect for you.

The Fragment Room's Website