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1. Save the date!
For a start, couples need to select an auspicious date for their nuptials. The Chinese has a system for proper date selection for marriage based on the birth details for both bride and groom, as well as both the parents of the bride and groom. 

2. The marital bed
Buying a new bed is important. It is not advisable to use a bed used by others before, as their “energy” or “DNA” are left behind! Not the best thing to begin your marriage with.

3. Setting the bed
You should also select a proper date and time to set the new bed with a set of activities to follow. 

4. Product placements
To ensure that all your activities “go well” on the bed, I would also recommend traditional items to be placed in the four corners of the bed, and other items, for at least for one year.

5. Argue in the bedroom
When you quarrel (which is unavoidable in all marriages), do it in the bedroom. Never quarrel in the kitchen. In my years of practice, I noticed that couples who argue in the kitchen is a big warning sign of a failing marriage.

Wilfred uses the Feng Shui system established by the Chinese Imperial Palace in both the Qing and Ming dynasties –  “The Imperial Complete Books of the Four Repositories”, “The Complete Collection of the “Imperial Encyclopedia” and “The Yongle Encyclopedia”. These more methodical systems were considered “official” in those times. For appointments and personal consultations, e-mail:

See also: 5 fengshui bridal makeup tips for a lucky weddingfengshui tips for a smooth relationship with your in-laws, and fengshui tips for an auspicious wedding date.