Sex in the shower - Safety tips and 5 steamy positions to try with your man

If you have ever fantasized about having hot steamy sex in the shower but took one look at the size of your HDB bathroom and felt that there is no way you and your partner can get frisky inside without the risk of something breaking or someone getting hurt, fret no more. You can still have a good time as long as you keep things safe and try positions that are suitable for small spaces.

Shower sex is a great way to keep your sex-life exciting. Sometimes, just a change of environment can be a huge turn-on and you will be able to experiment with new positions that you might not otherwise try in the comfort of your bedroom.  It is also great for multi-taskers who want a quickie since both of you would already have your clothes off and can quickly wash-off afterwards. Another plus point is that since the both of you will likely be pressed up against each other half the time, the increased intimacy in the small space is bound to make things hotter and heavier making for a steamier session.

Now you no longer need to wait for staycations to fulfil your fantasy in the hotel bathroom. Here are five positions you and your partner can try in an HDB toilet (or any of these other places for the adventurous couple)

#1 Sex Against The Wall

This position is a bit of a challenge as it requires your man to have some strength and good balance. First, stand with your back against the wall and your legs slightly apart. He can then hold on to the back of your thighs and lift you up while you wrap your legs around him.

You should feel like you are doing it right when you can rest your legs against his hips. Use the wall behind you as extra leverage as he thrusts into you, and as an extra precaution, rest your leg on a ledge for more support. Make sure that the floor is not too wet or soapy before trying this out because you want him to slip into you, not onto the floor. 

#2 The Leg-Up

This simple and straight-forward position is effective in cramped spaces. Get ready by standing and facing each other. Then, raise up one of your legs to wrap it around him and pull him closer to you as he enters. In this position, you are in charge, so you can control the pace and depth of thrusting. If your leg feels tired, get your man to lend you some support by placing his arm underneath. If you're adventurous and flexible, you can up the intensity by putting your leg over his shoulder. Just make sure you stretch beforehand because having leg cramps while chasing your orgasm is not fun or sexy.

See also: 11 COUPLE SPAS FOR A ROMANTIC DATE NIGHT OUT WITH YOUR BOO

#3 The Wet Doggy

For a more titillating experience, stand with your back to your partner and bend down while holding on to the shower tap, your knees or even the floor if all those yoga sessions have made you flexible, so he can enter you from behind. In this position, aside from deeper penetration, he can also reach down and play with your clitoris to increase your pleasure. In the movies, couples would turn on the shower spray and let the water run off the woman's body to give him a good view as he is pounding away, but we live in Singapore where water is scarce, so try not to do that lah.

#4 Girls-On-Top

If you are tired of standing and want to switch things up, this position might be the one for you. Get your partner to sit on the toilet seat with his legs apart while you lower yourself down onto him. You can bring down the toilet cover and put a towel over it to make things more comfortable. If you are worried that the toilet seat cannot hold all of your weight, try to lessen some of the pressure by supporting your weight with your feet on the floor. In this position, both of you can get a good view of each other and your man can caress your breasts and clitoris for added stimulation.

#5 Mirror, Mirror, On The Wall

Caution: only try this if you have a sturdy sink or bathroom counter-top at a suitable height. Of course, you also need a mirror for this to work. First, stand in front of the bathroom mirror and prop your leg up on the counter-top. Stick your butt out to create a better angle. From behind, he can choose to use a vibrator (make sure it's water-proof!) to play with your vagina and clitoris, or to use his own weapon. Either way, it will make for a very visually stimulating experience for both parties. 

 See also: IS SEX PAINFUL? 5 POSITIONS THAT MAY HELP

This story was originally published in Cleo Singapore.