8 things to do in between your solemnisation and wedding reception

Take your wedding portraits
A way to save on photography hours is to have your pictures taken right after your solemnisation ceremony, or in between events on the actual day. If you’ve got a bit of time after, and your venue offers several scenic angles for beautiful pictures, consider this option. May Kong and Andy Fong (Dec 2014) said taking their photos at the Singapore Botanic Gardens, where they had their morning tea ceremony on the actual day, felt even more special as “our emotions were on a high.”

Have a proper meal
As we’ve said several times before, you’re not going to have much time for food once your reception’s started properly (what with the multiple wardrobe changes and going around mingling with guests). Use this time to hydrate properly too – it’ll serve as fuel for the somewhat long night ahead. If you’re getting married at the Registry of Marriages at Fort Canning, book a table or space at one of the restaurants around the area for a celebratory meal with your family.

Spend some time together alone
Again, this has been mentioned before. We think it’s a great time to take in the fact that you’re now married, without having to field off well-meaning guests seeking to extend their congratulations.

Spend time with your parents
Unless you’re going to be living with them, it’s unlikely you’ll ever spend as much time with them now, and they’re probably missing you already. Take this time to thank them for their love and support, and show that your relationship isn’t going to change even after marriage.

Be comfortable
Use this time to make yourself as comfortable as possible. Again, you will be greeting and talking to many (if not all) of your loved ones at the reception, and won’t be able to find time to rest till after the party is over.

Have fun
Now that the nerve-wracking part’s over, the fun begins! Get yourself into the mood with a few close friends, your wedding party, or family, and indulge in your favourite hobby. Love singing? Ask your hotel if it can arrange a room or a karaoke set to be sent up to your bridal suite. Want to admire your venue grounds (if you’re getting married in a beautiful country club for example)? Go ahead. Just make sure you come back in time for the reception.

Take your loved ones out for a tour
If you’re having guests from overseas, you can use this time to introduce them to the city (especially if it’s their first time here), especially if they’ve just arrived or are leaving soon after the wedding. You can consider the Duck or Hippo Tours, or arrange for a private tour.

Take a peek at your reception set-up
Whether you’ve assigned a wedding planner or stylist to decorate the venue, or you’ve done it all the night before, use this time to admire it properly before it gets filled with guests.