Turn a shower into a dirty little romp with this step-by-step guide from Sarahjayne Edwards, a sex coach and therapist.
GO DOWN ON HIM
No, not that… yet. We’re talking about grooming his groin area to get him neat and tidy for any oral action. Get him to stand upright as you kneel before him.
“Seeing you in this position will get his mind racing,” says Sarahjayne. Lift the hair away from his skin and trim it to the desired length. (Be warned: It’s easier to snip off dry hair.) Avoid using a shaver, as it could lead to razor bumps – you won’t find that attractive, will you?
MAKE OUT IN THE RAIN
Here’s your chance to recreate the passionate thunderstorm snog scene between Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams in The Notebook. Turn the shower on full blast and stand under it with him. “Hold each other’s faces as you kiss deeply,” says Sarahjayne.
“You’ll be breathing harder and faster as you gasp for air between the deep-tongue kissing and the water pouring over your faces.”
GET TOUCHY-FEELY AND HOT
Take turns to massage each other. “Work on giving and receiving separately,” advises Sarahjayne. “Many lovers are more comfortable giving than receiving, but learning to let go of your inhibitions, and accept and enjoy being touched, really heightens the experience of lovemaking.”
When it’s your turn, use the shower head to spray water on his erogenous zones, or plant kisses or gentle nibbles there. If you’re not shy, throw in some dirty talk like “I can’t wait to…”
GET ON WITH IT
“By far, the easiest and most comfortable way to have sex in the shower is rear-entry sex,” says Sarahjayne. Face the wall while your man enters you from behind; this position allows him to grope your chest, too.
“It can be very satisfying for him – and it will be easy for you to wash up after.”
This story was originally published in the May 2011 issue of Her World.