From The Straits Times    |

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t’s not going to be easy persuading your boyfriend to change his mind. Even if he does, it might not work out in the long run as he could feel resentful that he was coerced into making this decision. Take comfort in knowing that you’ll be sharing your life with a good and filial family man. I do understand your fears and your apprehension.

However, we shouldn’t think that all mothers-in-law are impossible to get along with. Things are definitely not going to be easy because you’re used to your own mother and the way she runs a household. But, understand that every woman runs their household differently and there’s no right or wrong. It’s all about understanding each other and respecting each other’s boundaries. Once you start to have children of your own, you might actually appreciate the support and help that staying with extended family can offer!