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11 ways to boost your mental wellness in these trying times

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11 ways to boost your mental wellness in these trying times

Covid-19 has resulted in new stressors – curtailed social connections, loss of normalcy, fear of death and economic uncertainty – that may affect mental health

by Lee Siew Huam, ValueChampion & Farisia Thang   /   May 21, 2020
Tips to overcome anxiety during Covid-19

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Friends call extroverted medical student Katelyn Joy Chiu, 22, a sunshine girl. Nothing rains on her parade.

But she had “an overwhelming sense of uneasiness” when she started serving her 14-day stay-home notice on March 19, after curtailing a trip to London to visit her sister.

She was disappointed about lost opportunities, too, for she had to forgo hard-won clinical attachments in a Tel Aviv hospital, a Papua New Guinea medical ship and also stints in Singapore from April to June.

Anxiety heightened when more countries went into lockdown and infections grew exponentially, the bad news flooding her social media. “It became very scary. It felt like Covid-19 was in my bedroom,” she recounts.

“Covid-19 is a vicious annoyance that disregards everything.”

To turn things around, she made a to-do list from day one. She spent time doing videos of cover songs, creating an Instagram Live worship-and-sharing hour with a Christian friend that 400 people viewed, and working on her palliative care academic project at home.

“I made my bed to kick-start my day, so there was no temptation to lounge in bed or take afternoon naps.”

Importantly, she accepted the situation and realised she was privileged. The minute her stifling confinement ended on April 2, Miss Chiu and her boyfriend took a midnight drive to West Coast Park and strolled, then drove to East Coast Park and walked again, savouring the fresh air.

Feeling teary

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Like Ms Chiu, people with no underlying mental health issues may feel overwhelmed during the pandemic and wonder why they are teary or heavy-hearted.

They are experiencing Covid-19 anxiety, a prolonged time of heightened anxiety and even loss, experts say.

Ms Elysia Tan, senior counsellor at Touch Integrated Family Group, which serves families, children, youth and people who require mental health support, says: “In Singapore, which like the other major cities globally is highly efficient and enjoys much stability, people may find themselves out of their comfort zone.”

Also, people are social beings and may not be accustomed to social distancing from loved ones, friends and colleagues, she adds.

Dr Goh Kah Hong, head and senior consultant of Psychological Medicine at Khoo Teck Puat Hospital, says: “Whether we realise it or not, we are facing losses – from a sense of security and freedom that we took for granted, to more tangible unemployment and financial losses.”

Total disruption

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So this is a vastly altered state of life that Singaporeans are trying to adapt to. “Covid-19 is a total disruption,” says Ms Sarah Poh, mental health counsellor and founder of The Therapy Platform, a therapy booking platform.

American grief expert David Kessler articulated the sadness now engulfing people worldwide: “The loss of normalcy; the fear of economic toll; the loss of connection.”

In an interview with the Harvard Business Review, he said: “This is hitting us and we’re grieving. Collectively. We are not used to this kind of collective grief in the air.”

Still, some grief or anxiety is normal and can even quicken a sense of purpose.

“People who have been feeling teary or heavy-hearted sometimes could well be having a normal response to the pandemic,” Dr Goh notes.

Normal anxiety does not paralyse a person, experts say.

But if the anxiety is recurrent, overwhelming, causes mood changes like irritability, and even triggers physical symptoms such as insomnia, indigestion and body aches, it may be time to seek professional attention, they counsel.

Facing family 24/7

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Meanwhile, mental healthcare professionals express concern about families under stress, including the functional households (read also “5 Stress-Free Tips On Working From Home With Kids“).

Dr Goh says children are experiencing a lot of stress from the abrupt cessation of school and, for now, there are teething issues with home learning.

“It is important to note that our anxiety can be ‘contagious’ for the little ones,” he emphasises.

Children do best when they have a good routine, and get to play, he adds. “You may wish to consider simulating the school routine of having recess and lunch time between home learning. Do remember to have some play time with your children. When was the last time you did that?”

In compact Singapore homes, conflict over shared space can arise. Ms Poh of The Therapy Platform notes that in space-scarce Singapore, people face their families 24/7. This intensifies during the circuit breaker month.

“The key here is to have respect and set boundaries over what is private space and what is communal space. Without good conversation around space use, tension can rise quickly within the family,” she says.

“Actually, the conversation will be more about person-to-person values, then about actual size of space. Instead of waiting for conflict to happen, have a planned conversation by the ‘leaders’, who are usually the parents.”

People of every temperament have to manage, including chirpy extroverts.

Extroverts, who draw energy from social interaction, may have a hard time with diminished connection. “Instead of looking to the outside now, perhaps now is the golden opportunity for us to nurture our inner life. Having excess time being by ourselves, we have to learn to enjoy our own company,” says Ms Poh.

Other expert tips encompass being aware of the roots of your anxiety, living in the present and limiting the virtual life.

Ms Christine Wong, a psycho-traumatology practitioner, mentions a client who had a never-experienced level of Covid-19 anxiety. “She said she was worried about employment, but her job was stable.”

After delving into the situation, the client, a professional in her 40s, understood that her anxiety stemmed from around the age of six when her father went bankrupt after his business failed. In the middle of the night, the family had to move. Her mother cried in front of the children.

“If we understand what’s happening, it gives us huge clarity,” says Ms Wong. “It’s half the battle won.”

Dr Adrian Wang, a psychiatrist and counsellor who practises at Gleneagles Medical Centre, placed the pandemic in perspective.

“The virus is a finite thing,” he said at a Web In Travel webinar last month on managing Covid-19 fear and anxiety. “Eventually this storm will pass. It’s not a never-ending pattern of gloom and doom.”

Here are 11 tips to boost mental wellness:

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11 ways to boost your mental wellness in these trying times
1. Take care of houseplants
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You may not know it, but your houseplants can provide therapeutic effects that can help reduce stress and help work through trauma. Studies have shown that “gardening can act as therapy for people who have undergone trauma”. Specifically, the act of nurturing something, even if it is as small as a simple houseplant, can be an effective way to work through traumatic events. Taking care of indoor plants can also help with stress, something that everyone is feeling plenty of during this time.

If you currently have a houseplant, try to give it some extra attention during this period. As shown with studies, taking small breaks throughout the day to check up on your plants may be a good way to reduce work-related stress. It may be difficult to find plant shops that are open, but you can still order seeds or use seeds from common produce.

For instance, you can plant some seeds from veggies you already consume, like bell peppers, tomatoes, and chili padi. You can also create a makeshift veggie garden with carrot tops, onions with their roots still attached, and lettuce, by simply letting them float on a small amount of water on a flat surface.

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2. Reframe the situation
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You are not stuck at home. Instead, you are indulging in a long-awaited opportunity to slow down, focus on yourself and the home.

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3. Shut out negative thoughts by focusing on your surroundings and immersing in the present moment
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Listen to the birds outside the window, look at a pleasant object and describe it in your mind, make a cup of tea or coffee and notice how it smells and tastes.

How our body experiences our surroundings can help our brain register that we are in a safe place so that our body can relax.

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4. Keep our hope alive
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This is a good time to rethink our ways of life and reflect: What would a better tomorrow look like? Make the best of every moment – and we will come out of Covid-19 stronger.

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5. Maintain an exercise or meditation regimen
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Studies have shown that “exercise improves mental health by reducing anxiety, depression, and negative mood”, due to dopamine released during physical activity and increased blood circulation to the brain. Even if you can’t go to the gym or yoga studio anymore, you can still keep your fitness regime using free yoga and fitness videos on YouTube as a guide for your workouts.

You can also try adding meditation alongside exercise. In a review of multiple clinical trials, meditation reduces psychological stress, anxiety and can reduce the risk of stress-related health problems. To have a calmer mind and better sleep as you wind down the day, meditate with apps like Stop Breathe & Think, Headspace, Calm, Inscape or via Zoom with a guided meditation.

6. Learn to cook or bake
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For those who enjoy it, cooking and baking is a form of meditation and stress relief. Therapists have even been using cooking as a part of therapy for anxiety, depression, and other psychological problems. Focusing on a mindful task like chopping and measuring of ingredients during cooking and baking takes the mind off unwanted thoughts and gives people a sense of control. The delicious end result of the process also gives people a sense of accomplishment.

If you don’t cook, now it can be a good time to learn a useful survival skill so you can reduce going out to buy takeaway food. As a beginner, you can watch quarantine cooking shows or use online videos as a guide. You’ll be surprised at what you can produce even without much experience.

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7. Try to be adaptive
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This involves a flexibility to function optimally in changing circumstances like the pandemic.

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8. This is a good time to learn to get along with family members, when facing them 24/7
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Pause before giving negative comments. Be more liberal with such phrases: Thank you. Well done. I appreciate your help.

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9. Keep socialising, safely, with video chats on Skype, FaceTime, WhatsApp, Google Hangouts or other tools
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Or use the phone, text messages and e-mail.

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10. Limit exposure or take a break from Covid-19 updates
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While it is important to stay informed, it is good to reflect if checking for updates has become unhealthy or obsessive.

Focus on recovery numbers instead of mortality rates. Separate real news from rumour. Balance the news intake with reading or watching videos with themes that you delight in.

 

11. Don't be afraid to seek help if you need it
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For some, a simple change in thinking may be just the thing they need to get over mental slumps. For others, starting an activity and actively working on their mental health may be more suitable. However, for a substantial group of people, consistent therapy may be required.

Keep the younger and older members of your family in mind as well. Children and young adults are experiencing drastic chemical changes alongside this pandemic, which can increase feelings of anxiety and depression. The elderly may experience higher rates of anxiety, agitation and stress—especially if they’re in isolation. In some cases, at-home mental health management may not be enough.

If you find yourself or a loved one suffering from an unmanageable mental health issue, do seek help from health helplines like SOS (Samaritans of Singapore), Singapore Association for Mental Health (SAMH), or Touch Line.

 

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This article was first published in The Straits Times and Women’s Weekly.

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