You just got out of a relationship where you were constantly controlled, stonewalled or even demeaned. But much as your ex was a terrible person, you find yourself missing him. That’s understandable, actually—as your partner he was a big part of your life.
However, if you find yourself wanting to be with him again in spite of the way he was with you, you should be alarmed. And to make sense of these feelings, you ought to dig deep into why you want him back.