“It’s not just my penis that likes attention. I also love it when my girlfriend takes my testicles in her mouth – very gently, of course – and sucks on them slowly. I’m not sure if there are as many nerves in my pair as there are in my penis, but it sure feels good when my girlfriend treats them the same way. If you don’t like the idea of licking or sucking your guy’s testicles, then you can always just fondle them while performing oral sex on him. He’ll love the sensation of your fingers on his boys.” – Roy*, 36, film producer
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“I like it when my wife glances up from her BJs occasionally to look at me. It’s such an incredibly intimate moment, when our eyes meet and she catches me watching her performing oral sex on me. Sometimes she even manages a smile, which lights up her whole face and makes her look even more beautiful.” – Colin*, 37, lawyer
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“The one thing that really kills my pleasure is when the woman acts as if giving BJs are a chore. If you don’t enjoy it, don’t do it to begin with, but don’t pretend that you are okay with it and then show zero enthusiasm when you’re down there. Of course, you don’t have to get all hyped-up, either. Just show some interest in what you’re doing and don’t act bored or as if you’d rather be somewhere else. If you’re enjoying it, it’s likely that we are, too.” – Hayden*, 31, journalist
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“My package is precious, so treat it with care. I once dated a woman who went a little overboard – she was moving her head up and down so fast that she ended up biting my penis. I was in so much pain and it really ruined the moment for me. Grazing the edge of your teeth along a guy’s penis can be arousing, but when you’re sucking, be sure to use your lips and tongue more than you do your teeth.” – Chris*, 29, marketing manager
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“We know that performing oral sex on a guy can get tiring. But don’t just stop what you’re doing when you need to take a break, because the abruptness can kill your man’s erection and pleasure (especially if you’ve already developed a rhythm). Instead, I recommend alternating sucking and licking with stroking. This will give your mouth and jaw a break, and most guys appreciate the change in sensation that this offers.” – Dominic*, 27, event planner
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“The top side of your tongue is rough and the underside is smooth. When you’re down on your guy, be sure to run both sides along the length of your guy’s penis. Both sides create very different sensations, which most guys find extremely arousing. We love it, too, when you prod and poke the head of our penis using the tip of your tongue and when you swirl your tongue around the head. It just feels so good.” – Elijah*, 37, media buyer
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“One way to show your enthusiasm for what you’re doing is to make some noise. Okay, we know you can’t scream our name when your mouth is full, but you can hum softly to let us know that you’re enjoying yourself – and enjoying us. What’s more, the humming creates a vibration that only heightens our pleasure.” – Ray*, 39, teacher
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“The head of the penis is where all the nerve endings are. This is what makes this area super sensitive. So, when you’re licking and sucking, don’t just pay attention to the shaft. In fact, most of your attention should be focused on the head. We love it when you kiss, suck and lick the head, so go crazy with it. Just try not to nibble or bite on this sensitive part because most guys aren’t comfortable with your teeth being so close to it.” – James*, 35, journalist
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“To avoid chafing, make sure that you lubricate your guy’s penis with as much saliva as possible. I know it sounds messy and gross, but trust me, it will make for a more pleasant and comfortable experience for the both of you. If there’s not enough saliva then your lips moving up and down the shaft can cause friction, which some men find painful.” – Leonard*, 34, insurance agent
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“Don’t underestimate the effect of a kiss or three on your man’s penis. It’s a cute and romantic way to express your affection for your man and it tells him how fond you are of his package. I personally love it when my girlfriend covers my entire penis with little kisses before and after a BJ. It feels heavenly.” – Jeff, 38, hotel executive
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“Guys love it when you take their entire penis into your mouth. It’s like we have been ‘swallowed whole’ in a sense and it feels really awesome. Of course, size matters in this case so if it doesn’t feel comfortable for you to do that, then don’t, but if you can manage it, give it a try – and then swirl your tongue all around the length of his penis while it’s in your mouth.” – Jack*, 40, DJ
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“While you’re down on your guy, let your hands wander all over his lower body – specifically his belly, that area between his belly and genitals, and his inner thighs. It already feels terrific to be sucked and licked, but when we feel your fingers all over our skin too, it feels like a jolt of electricity running through our whole body.” – Thomas*, 34, musician
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“It’s okay to be rough but not too rough. In case you didn’t know, sucking too hard can be painful for some guys, so take it easy. Learn how to read your man’s body language. Obviously if you have been sucking lightly and can tell that his excitement is building, you may want to increase the pressure and speed. If you’re sucking pretty hard – literally squeezing his penis between your lips – and can see that he’s feeling uncomfortable, release a bit of pressure. Knowing how hard and fast to suck can make a big difference to his satisfaction.” – Paul*, 35, writer
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“Don’t just bob your head up and down and expect your guy to get hard or to orgasm that way. Learn how to tease his penis so that he’s pleading with you not to stop, know how and when to use different parts of your tongue to create different reactions, and above all, treat his package – including his testicles – like your personal sex toy, which means having fun with it and enjoying it.” – Don*, 26, musician
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