Ask Jay: Is 10 years too big an age gap?

Thank you for pointing out that he is indeed legal. As far as feeling that your relationship is inappropriate or wrong, that’s just a social stigma, particularly one that is put on women more than men. Men have been hooking up with younger women since the start of time, and things are finally starting to swing the other way. And how do you tell if he’s truly unbothered by the age gap? You can’t ever really know. Just like you can’t ever really know if someone truly loves you or not. It’s all about trust, and as long as he sticks with you, and you stick with him, does it really matter?

(Read also “Asian Celeb Couples With Large Age Gaps; Jay Chou, 42 And Hannah Quinlivan, 27“)

You’ve lost the spark? Welcome to a real relationship. Relationships are easy when they’re new and the spark is fresh. But every relationship eventually gets to the point you’re at now – it doesn’t matter who you’re dating. The real question is: Do you want to rekindle that spark? And if you do, then not having an obvious reason to break up really is a good enough reason to stay together. Lots of people are in crappy relationships where the reasons to break up are obvious, so consider yourself lucky.

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