Be wary of the conflicts change will bring about. Signs like the Aquarius need to remain cool-headed, whilst Scorpios just need to be patient in their pursuit of love. Read on to find out what April has in store for you
by Renaye Chan of Alchemy Consultancy Services /
March 26, 2019
While the challenges or issues of last month may not be fully resolved, Aries must learn to put down your warrior weapon and adopt a gentler and more emotional approach this month.
Instead of fighting back, learn to see things from your loved one’s point of view. Learn to provide a listening ear and act as a support for your friends and family. Your actions and encouragement will be louder than anything else you can say. While a resolution or conclusion to conflicts won’t come fast or easy, start laying the groundwork to recreate or strengthen the emotional ties you have.
This is a time for tapping into the feelings of those around you.
Money and finance may have a big influence on your current or future relationships during April. It can be a source of conflict, but also a way for you and your partner to bond and overcome obstacles.
It may be the only thing that can help you both connect during this frustrating and restless time. You may feel more vulnerable this month, which can also make you more defensive towards others. The best thing to do is to try and keep your opinions to yourself. Older relatives can provide valuable relationship advice this month.
April is a very busy month for many other signs, leaving them with less time to socialise. This allows you to take your time in getting comfortable. However, the more you get used to it, the more you find yourself getting frustrated with the lack of attention from others.
Remember they gave you time when you needed your space, so learn to return the favour.
While this can be a beautiful bonding time for you and your loved ones, it can be difficult for new relationships where you haven’t developed enough of a trust yet. It can be hard to bring up your personal feelings to a new partner, which can lead to more emotional walls or conflicts.
Familial ties are very important to Virgoans and this month, that is especially true. You may find yourself growing closer to your relatives, parents or children.
You are more than willing to give them your undivided attention. However, when it comes to your partner or finding new relationships, you may encounter some difficulty. Walking on new ground is always difficult for a Virgoan, so you may have trouble opening to your partner as you do your family.
Bad habits can annoy you this month, but to an extent that isn’t justified. Learn not to let small issues turn into big conflicts. If you just step back, you may realise how silly an issue it is to argue over.
The first half of the month is rather pleasant for Librarians and their loved ones. It is a time when you and your partner can truly make your house a home.
You are looking to unify your surroundings the same way you both have in your relationship. As long as you are both willing to work together, you can create a harmonious environment. However, watch out as on the 20th, Venus looks to enter Aries, which can throw a wrench into your plans.
You simply aren’t in the mood for romance this month, which may cause conflicts between you and your partner. Single Scorpios may find it difficult to date. If possible, try to put it off till next month.
For attached Scorpios, you will have to be honest about your situation to your partner. Let them know you are too tired for romance now and you just need time to recharge and get back to your usual sexy self. Romance will come around again, you just need a break.
You have to learn to stop trying to lead the charge and instead, take a step out of the spotlight and lend a listening ear to those close to you. Listen until the end and provide reasonable suggestions, or at least offer your support to them in their time of need. You can still be loud through the smallest actions and in your offering of affection.
Any strain in your relationships will finally come to light this month in the form of conflicts or arguments. While you may feel that everyone is being too irritable, remember that it takes two people in a relationship.
You may have been unknowingly a little distant over these past few months, which can cause unintended stress in a relationship. Major familial changes in the home or relationships can also add extra pressure. This can be a tough time, but also very enlightening.
Learn to view things from a different perspective and be honest with your feelings, but don’t be argumentative. It is important to adopt a calm attitude.
Remember, you’re speaking to your family and loved ones, not your adversaries.
As Aquarians slowly get back to their usual selves, they may unknowingly change towards their family and loved ones. While these changes are not bad, it can still be rather jarring to those around you.
Be prepared as this month may bring about heated arguments or even explosive confrontations between you and your partner. External changes in your personal or home life can bring added stress and communication is a sore spot.
Be prepared for these conflicts and do your best to remain cool headed. If possible, ask if you can discuss issues in the following month where you will be surer of yourself and your responses. Keep your head down in the meanwhile and do not hold grudges.
You may still be reeling from the changes that you were beginning to implement in your life last month. They are not finished changing your life and will continue to affect you in April.
Change can be scary even when it’s good, so be prepared for conflicts that may arise due to it. That being said, romance can be found, surprisingly, in the past. Attached couples can find renewed passion revisiting old dating sites. Singles may find someone from their past has suddenly caught their eye or may even reconcile with previous partners.
Ironically, in moving forward, you learn to make peace with your past and gain unexpected blessings from it that will go towards your future.