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Do you have a masturbation routine? If you don’t, here’s why you should have one

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Do you have a masturbation routine? If you don’t, here’s why you should have one

Do You Have a Masturbation Routine? Insights from Our Community

by Smile Makers Collection  /   July 22, 2022

Annika Wolter/Smile Makers

Have you ever considered how your masturbation sessions fit into your wider self-love routine? After all, our sexual wellbeing is just as important as our physical, mental and emotional wellbeing, least because it can positively contribute to all three.

Or maybe you have your masturbation routine down; know exactly what you like and follow the same pattern to achieve your pleasure. These habitual steps can make us feel confident and more familiar with our bodies, whilst sticking to fixed techniques or positions allow us to recognise changes in them.

To recap, the idea of a masturbation routine can be defined in two ways;

  1. The regularity of our self-love practice (daily, weekly, monthly)
  2. Our accustomed pleasure formula

Both interpretations leave us with something to think about, so sexual wellness brand Smile Makers polled their Instagram community about their self-loving. 38% who answered felt they had a masturbation routine, whilst the other 62% said not really. Be it part of a self-care regimen, or the ways we pleasure ourselves over and over again; the practice is meant to explore sexual enjoyment and help us deconstruct a performative approach to sex.

Here’s what they learnt from the community.

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Do you have a masturbation routine? If you don't, here's why you should have one
Most women know that female masturbation is a healthy habit
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Doing it can help us sleep better, boost our immune systems and reduce stress. All of which support our other life routines – it’s a no brainer! More and more women are catching on to this wellbeing lifehack, recognising that solo sex is a top priority when it comes to self-care. Setting aside regular me-time, rather than squeezing in a play when we can, may create an opportunity for a more in-depth self-exploration of our mind and body.

Likewise, breaking the routine we are accustomed to invites a little sexual reflection. With no pressure to orgasm, finding ways to refresh it can strengthen our own sexual awareness. Ultimately, our masturbation practice is deeply personal.

Annika Wolter/Smile Makers
Favourite masturbation positions
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Regularly making time for self-pleasure will mean getting a chance to find out what you really, really like. The most popular masturbation position from this survey was on your backs, with some preferring a twist to this classic by adding a hip lift or leg bend. Many also enjoy a lounged seating position or doggy! One person couldn’t explain it, but suggested standing up as an all-time favourite way to masturbate.

Let’s not forget, solo sessions don’t have to be completely solo. Include some mutual masturbation in your routine, whether they are there in real life or with one hand sexting and the other between your legs, as one multi-tasking member mostly prefers.

Annika Wolter/Smile Makers
New self-satisfaction positions
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One you get into our groove it can be hard to stray away from what you know and love. Two thirds of participants said they do not try new positions whilst masturbating. Take some tips from the favourites above or simply make a conscious effort to roll around a little to find a different way to lay.

If you want to mimic sex, and you love being on top, furniture can make a great straddle apparatus. For example, place a towel over an arm of a chair and initiate a grinding motion!

Annika Wolter/Smile Makers
New masturbation techniques
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Positions may be a little harder to mix up given the lack of space around us, but techniques can be far more playful. 50% of respondents enjoyed trying out different ways to pleasure themselves with their hands. Shuffling your masturbation techniques is a great way to discover yourself, and really understand how our body reacts to different touch. That’s right, it’s not all about the vulva. Try titillating between inner and outercourse to stimulate both your vulva and your erogenous zones.

Of course, a fun way to find new methods of touching yourself is masturbation using vibrators. 48% of the community participants already switch up their masturbation accessories regularly. Having a selection to choose from can help with setting ourselves an orgasm routine, imagine a ‘Monday’s clit stimulator’ and ‘Saturday’s sensual session’ — just like those socks with the days of the week on, but much more fun!

Vibrators could still be intriguing to some of us, and sexual wellness brand Smile Makers likes to call that Vi-Curious. Gentle pleasure massagers make best friends for beginners; and just like true BFFs, will encourage us to open up and unwind.

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This article was first published in Smile Makers. Smile Makers is a sexual wellness brand on a mission to inspire vulva owners to set their own standards for good sex. As a brand, they bring sexual wellness products into mainstream spaces, remove limiting beliefs around vulva sexuality and foster a global, pleasure-positive and light-hearted conversation about sex.

Annika Wolter/Smile Makers
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