You know you’re in for a fabulous evening soiree if the wedding invitation explicitly says “black tie” for the dress code. Originating from British and American conventions for dressing in the nineteenth century, black tie refers to a semi-formal attire for events from 6pm onwards. Men have it easy — anything from a prototypical tuxedo to a dinner jacket will do. But for women, gowns are a must — which comes with a whole other set of do’s and don’ts, not forgetting decisions that have to be made on the colour, fit and level of extravagance.
First things first: Do not turn up to the wedding in a white gown, we’d even advise against a cream-coloured number. Secondly, no naked dresses à la Beyoncé (and Jennifer Lopez, Kim Kardashian West and the list go on) at the MET Gala. Showing a little bit of skin is fine, we encourage it even, but modesty is equally encouraged. After all, as Carolina Herrera once famously said: “You can’t be a fashion icon if you’re not wearing any clothes.” When it comes to choosing your gown for the evening, keep comfort in mind—you’re going to be doing a lot of sitting and waiting till the ceremonies are over.
We recommend going with a fit that’s most flattering for your body shape and a shade of colour complementary to your skin’s undertone (here’s our guide)—the same goes for jewellery. Ladies with cooler (or bluer) skin tones, should opt for silver or white gold jewellery whereas those with warmer undertones
Take a style cue from shoe designer Amina Muaddi and pick a simple and form-fitting elegant black gown. If you want to show skin, pick an area (for example, your cleavage, back or legs) and stick to that unless you’ve gotten prior approval from the bride herself. After all, the day isn’t about you.
