From The Straits Times    |

Not many women enjoy doing it but most men love receiving it. Whether it’s your first or umpteenth time, here are some tips to make oral sex more enjoyable for your man – and yourself too. Getting down with your husband in the bedroom is really helpful when it comes to increasing intimacy in your relationship and ensuring a lasting and happy marriage.

How to give your man a great blow job DECOR

TAKE CONTROL 
Don’t wait for him to ask for it, just head south and get busy. The fact that you want to pleasure him in that way will turn him on so that means the, erm, job will probably be done a lot faster too (which is great news if you’re not a big fan of it). Plus, being confident in knowing what to do is a huge turn on. And, if you start the ball rolling, he’s more likely to return the favour too.

BE ENTHUSIASTIC
The more you seem like you’re enjoying yourself, the more he’s going to enjoy himself too. Enthusiasm is a big turn on so let him know that you’re having a good time by moaning softly every now and then. 

SPREAD THE LOVE 
While his penis is obviously going to be the centre of attention, it shouldn’t be the only thing you work on. Don’t neglect his testicles, get them in on the action too. Stroke them, lick them, put them in your mouth…whatever you decide to do, make sure you include them in the fun too. 

TALK TO HIM 
Ask him what he likes when it comes to oral sex and what he wants you to do to him. Every man is different so what works for one man might not turn on another. In the same vein, tell him if he wants you to do something that you’re not comfortable with. This is also a good time to add in some dirty talk, as it’ll make the mood more electric. 

GET WET
Things can get a bit dry during oral sex, especially in your mouth, and this isn’t going to do him any favours either. Try applying some flavoured lubricant on his penis – they are available in various flavours these days – so you literally won’t have a bad taste in your mouth while doing it. 

LET YOUR HANDS WANDER
Just because you’re concentrating on his genital area doesn’t mean you can’t touch him anywhere else. Let your hands do the talking by grabbing his butt or stroking his nipples. Feel free to get more aggressive as he nears climax by pulling his body towards you or digging your fingernails into his thighs.

HOT OR COLD? 
If you want to spice things up, go for different temperatures, in order to give him better sensations. Suck on an ice cube just before you put him in your mouth, to give him a tingly thrill. And, if you want to make it even more exciting, alternate between hot and cold – switch between an ice-cube (or just cold water) and warm water or tea before you take him into your mouth. The contrasting temperatures will heighten his sensations and therefore his pleasure too. 

DON’T GAG 
Men love to think they’re bigger than they actually are so, if you’re gagging while he’s inside your mouth, it’s a big ego boost (and, therefore, turn on) for him. Give him the illusion that this is happening by placing the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth, then let his penis hit the underside of your tongue. You don’t have to tell him what you’re actually doing. 

GET CLEAN, THE GET DIRTY 
If you’re a hygiene freak and the idea of being so close to his nether regions freaks you out, suggest taking a shower together first, so you know for sure he’s totally clean. Then get dirty under the sheets – or anywhere else! 

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